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Anonymous asked: There is this guy who likes me but I don't feel the same way about him and I've explicitly made that clear to him. However he is still bent on trying to "chase" me and recently he started waiting at bus stops for me (with the knowledge that I would go there on my way home) and following me home without my permission. This happened a few times and it made me uncomfortable so I asked him to stop but he didn't and he in a way stalked me home again and it made a me v. Uncomfortable. What do I do?

Sometimes it’s hard to make people clear that you don’t feel the same. And I guess he will regret it as soon as he won’t be in love with you any longer. I understand that you feel uncomfortable. At first it would be good to talk about it with your friends or your family. I don’t know how old you are but maybe your parents can help you?! If he REALLY doesn’t stop, say that you will go to the police. Maybe that will open his eyes. If not, GO to the police. I know this will be hard because he’s just “in love” and you (I guess?!) don’t know him that good. But he probably won’t understand, you know?
I hope you will find a good solution, and don’t panic too much! xx

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Anonymous asked: Hey , sorry if i'm bothering you but i need some help.. I am still not over my ex-boyfriend we've been together for over a year and since he's gone i started self harming again and i don't want to eat anymore. I don't know what to do..

You don’t bother me, love.
It’s always hard when people leave you. Especially if you were together for a long time and when you’re emotionally not stable. It hurts and it sometimes leads you to relapse.
But you know what? Don’t depend on other people. Yes, you love him, you’ve given him EVERYTHING you could ever give someone. But is he worth that you’re self harming? NOTHING is worth your self harm. Yes, we people need love… But you can’t get love through self harm or when you not eat. You need to close that chapter, you know? Try to ‘forget’ him, do some things with your friends and other things that make you happy to just …. forget …. for a while. Meet new people, live the life you want and one day you’re gonna see that you’re feelings for him aren’t that strong anymore. And you will meet someone new, and when you’re lucky, he loves you as much as you will love him.

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Anonymous asked: Okay, please just understand where I'm coming from but ya the start of May I fell out with my year long best friend, a year doesn't sound long but it was. She was everything to me and she accused me of doing so much wrong to her and made all of our friends fall out with me, at the end of summer I begged and apologised for the things I've done wrong. I loved this girl and we became friends-best friends again. I've been so happy the last 6 weeks and now she dropped me like a stone and left me.

… and that’s how life hits. You wake up one day and couldn’t think about that one person to leave. But it does. You didn’t expect it, you never thought it would turn out this way. But yes, sometimes people leave. Even if we love them with all our heart. And it seems like we’re dying without them. The truth is that we THINK we can live without them… We tell ourselves that it’s not possible but in fact we CAN go on without them. Because we will always meet other people. And then we’re afraid that they will drop us like a stone, too…. But we never know.
I just want you to know that you’re not alone in this. And yes, of course it’s hard, but you need to tell yourself that it’s kind of “okay”. And just think about…. that maybe it’s better without her, even if it doesn’t seem like it.

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Anonymous asked: I used to self harm a lot. I haven't in a few months. I think about it a lot when i'm driving and then I get home and forget. And I used to never eat. For weeks at a time, but then my friend made me start to eat again, but I always think about not eating and thinking "I shouldn't eat for a whole week." What should I do?

You know that it’s wrong to self harm and not to eat. Keep yourself up. Remind yourself that it is healthy not to self harm and that it’s healthy when you eat. Make yourself some reminders (paper on the walls, mobile…). Buy yourself something you like if you see progress. Talk to that friend that helped you to eat, he/she seems nice and can maybe understand you. Do what you love and what you like. Stay strong (: x

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marl-marlin asked: hi I'm marlin I want to ask how to deal when you relapse I wake up and don't want to do anything I skip my class again this morning Actually I don't want to wake up I just want to lay on my bed all day I don't feel good or happy I do a lot of things to make me happy and clam it suck I feel the same very numb I'm happy when I'm drawing but now I feel like I don't want to do anymore just done I don't know how to deal with my emotion they change a lot it killing me My english is bad sorry.

Sweetie, take a deep breath. Think about what happened in your life and why you feel this way. Forgive yourself, that’s the only thing you can do. Forgive yourself for relapsing and stand up again. You want to live and you are on this earth to live. And you’re the only one who knows how you do it right. There are no rules. So break your own chains, take a long walk, cry if you must, talk to someone and go to the bright side of life. It’s a long and hard way but if you really want to recover, you will do this. I believe in you, stay strong x

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-why-hurt-when-you-can-love asked: Hi!! I just wanna say I really really love you blog. It helped me get clean and start recovery. So thank you so much for everything :))))

You’re so welcome, love.

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happiness-ismychoice asked: Love your blog omgggggggg it makes me so happppyy xxxxxx

I’m so happy that you like it :)))) x

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